The need for empirical research that contributes to the prevention and arrest of marital distress is increasing. Factors identified through research as being influential in the stability of marriage include intimacy, positive behaviors, social support, good communication, and conflict management.

Implications of this study include the application of brief marital enrichment as a preventive measure that could be both cost- and time-conserving. Furthermore, the use of forgiveness training in the therapeutic settings may be beneficial and contribute to individuals' well-being.

To effectively address the increase in marital distress present in today's society, researchers must identify factors that contribute to success in marriage. Because marital conflict is almost a given for contributing to marital distress, the majority of available research has been devoted to conflict resolution and communication skills. Conflict aside; it appears that there is a natural decrease in marital quality that occurs over time, particularly in the first four years of marriage. However, several empirically supported key components have been identified as influences of relational integrity. These components include (but are not limited to) intimacy, positive and negative behaviors, and the reality of human fallibility.

Do not be disheartened. Initial years of marriage can be tough sometimes because one does not know each other and sometimes has preconceived notions about married life. One may have one image of ones spouse and try to fit him or her into it creating lot of hurt and pain to both. It is very easy to break a relationship but lots of thought, emotions and hard work are required to make it work. I advise you both to postpone conception of child and go for marital counseling. Give it a good try and if it does not work you can go your own ways.